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 July 2008 Edition

In this Issue...
Art Pick
Featured Business
Deconstructing Procrastination
A New Way of Living
Goddess Party!
 
 
" If you want to make an easy job seem mighty hard, just keep putting off doing it. "
 
 
Olin Miller


 
 
 
Art recommendation
The Lab at Belmar

 The Lab

Looking for a unique and insightful experience?  Check out The Lab at Belmar. The Lab is "dedicated to contemporary art and thought, combining elements of a museum, think tank and public forum, like Rome - though more like the barbarians. The Lab offers art exhibitions by leading regional, national and international contemporary artists, as well as weekly lectures and creative, adult education programs in an environment that tries to be sophisticated- and often fails."
 
As you can gather, it is a blend of things, not least of all humor.  What a fantastic space and wonderful non-profit.  Check it out.  Feel free to show your support and become a member.  Get your art on!
404 S. Upham St., Lakewood, CO 80226  303.934.1777
 
 

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Featured Business

Marketing Materials Maven
518.642.3334
Are you a female wellness entrepreneur seeking to understand and identify (clearly) your niche?  Look no further. Karin offers individual programs, newsletters, teleclasses and all kinds of innovative marketing support from a distance!
 
She helps you 
channel your passion for life tranformation into a powerful, profitable message.
 
 
 

Deconstructing Procrastination:


Shifting from Inaction to Action

 
"Okay, all set.  Sitting down, it's time to get it done.  Drat, I need to some water.  Okay, let's see--start a layout, where to begin?  Oops, I better make that phone call I forgot to make yesterday.  Okey dokey, really ready to go now.        No really.  It's time.         Well I am kinda hungry, maybe I should go get a quick snack before I crank it out."
 
Familiar?
There are loads of good "reasons" to procrastinate:
  • too busy
  • don't know where to start
  • waiting for divine inspiration
  • not in the right mood
  • confused / need clarification
  • my best work happens under pressure
  • waiting until Mercury comes out of retrograde

     And then there are the innumerable unconscious reasons for procrastination whether exhaustion from pushing too hard coupled with fear of losing a job, fear of failure or incompletion.  Sometimes the task marks a symbolic ending/beginning that scares us or we're don't feel ready for.
     
    What's the Cost?
    Regardless of the reason, procrastination wastes precious moments of our lives and causes unnecessary stress and worry.  It costs me time that I'd rather be doing something else.  What's procrastination costing you?   A promotion, quality, relationships, play and rejuvenation, peace of mind, self-esteem?
     
    It's hard to fathom the wide-spread impact of procrastination.  It stunts growth.  It inhibits joy.  It interferes with freedom.  It makes some people loath getting out of bed.  Life is too amazing and precious to hide under the covers! You may not think it's affecting you, but I've yet to see procrastination not cause a sense of heaviness upon thinking of the "undone."  Energy robber, zest zapper.
     
    Climbing Out
    Breaking down procrastination is a personal process and you will craft your own antidote.  Here are some ideas:
    1.     When overwhelmed with lots of things, simply pick something, (the easy thing or the hard thing) and start.  I challenge myself to harness my mind and refocus every time I start to drift off.  (I've never tried it, but I envision "seat belting" myself to my chair as a reminder to stay seated.  Whatever works!)
    2.     Set a time frame for uninterrupted work and stick to it.  If it's super daunting, set a timer for 10 minutes and when the time's up, move on to something else. 
    3.     Break "it" into pieces.  The mere size & scale of some projects can create stuckness.  Take it one 10 minute step at a time.  Begin with the foundation, whether brainstorming ideas, clearing space in a single drawer, pick up some boxes for the move, outlining what you want to accomplish.
    4.     During focus sessions, keep a notebook nearby to record all the "important distractions" that come to mind to revisit later and avoid impulsivity.
    5.     Sit still.  Take a few minutes (maybe listen to a single song start to finish) to center yourself.  Envision completion.  Breathe.  Get present and stop running around in your mind like the Road Runner.
    6.     Track the time wasted thinking /worrying spent not doing it.  What could you do with that time?  Let possibility motivate you.
    7.     Understand procrastination.  Why are you putting things off?  Consider whether there's a life change in order-- career, lifestyle, relationship. If you are a risk analyst who is miserable and you've always dreamt of being a financial planner, be honest and make a change! Usually it boils down to overcoming fear.  Your gifts and life dreams are not coincidence.
    8.     Let it go.  Some have lived for years with an undone task, feeling guilty and drained every time they think about it.  Why not just let it go?  If were really that necessary or important, wouldn't you have done it by now?  It might not matter as much as you think.
    9.     Enroll support.  Ask someone to help you with it or to talk to you about it until you break through stagnancy and get the ball rolling.  Sometimes a kick-start is all it takes.  One step further, hire someone to do it for you.  That's ultimate support and letting go!
    10.   Be gentle with yourself.  Self judgment, guilt and negative talk won't help you get things done so stop it already!  Motivation and action come from belief in oneself, from willingness, trusting ourselves and the world.  Focus there and celebrate all your steps, however small.
     
    It's amazing how much less stress I experience when I chip away at my projects rather than postponing them until I'm forced into action.  I've especially learned this while in the midst of prepping and selling one house, doing a major remodel on another and planning a wedding.  When I remember to practice what I know, I really enjoy the mindfulness of it, as well as the higher quality of what I create.  One day at a time!
     
    Joy,
    Robin

     

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    A New Way of Living
     

    For over 6 years I've been leading a women's series called: Access Your Power Within
    12 Power Principles to Juicy, Soulful, Living
     
    Here's what it's deigned for:
    • Start living a highly conscious life of choice
    • Solidify the ritual of fostering your best self.
    • Immerse in a powerful community of women
    • Replace feeling "stuck" with patience and "knowing"
    • Develop and use tools to remove the obstacles in your way.
    • Be resilient despite challenges and set-backs
    • Utilize your own inner wisdom for guidance and aligned decisions.
    • Become a master of your energy and inspiration.
    • Liberate and nourish your soul. Be YOU daily.
    • Increase happiness through non-attachment and mindset
    1st and 3rd Mondays monthly, 6:30-8pm
     
    Sneak Preview Nights
    August 4th The Power of Self Love
    August 18th The Power of Attitude
     
    Listen to the Introductory audio  (plays right from your computer now), or click here to download
    MP3 version MP3 AYPW and listen later.
     
    The main gist is feeling powerful in your life, having greater clarity and knowing how to listen to your inner guidance (and actually following the advice.) It is about becoming a master of your energy and what enlivens you, getting clear on desires, eliminating obstacles (physical, mental and emotional) between you and your desires, exploring self expression and how to be YOU regardless of your environment.  How to be resiliant in the face of challenge and set backs while working manifesting principles to attract into your life what you deeply desire (and at the same time practicing graceful un-attachment to outcomes.)  It is about letting who you truly are (your soul self, divine self) have space to breathe in your life.  To touch a place where living is more flow and less struggle.
     
     
    It's time to get inspired and create a life that delights you, by Accessing Your Power Within.
     
     
    Find out more and register for 12 Principles for Juicy, Soulful Living  Space limited.
     
    Sneak Preview Nights:
    Monday Aug 4th: The Power of Self Love
    Monday Aug 18th: The Power of Attitude
    6:30-8pm.   A few guest spaces available. 
    Get a sneak preview before you join!
     
    Call today 303.282.1077 to reserve your spot.
     Upcoming Events
     
    Sneak Preview Nights
     
    Sneak peek 2
     
    Access Your Power Within -12 Principles for Juicy, Soulful Living
    Monday Aug 4th- The Power of Self Love
    Monday Aug 18th- The Power of Attitude
     6:30-8pm
     
    Curious about Access Your Power Within and wish you could try a class first?  Here's your chance!  Guest spaces available on these 2 nights.  What better way to see if the series is for you than to try it?
     
    Call to reserve your space 303.282.1077  (Spaces limited.)
     
     
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    Return of the Goddess
    Save the date!  Our semi-annual Goddess Party is coming up on Thursday July 24th- 6:00-8:00pm, groovy location TBD.

     
    Open to all women and especially designed to bring together amazing women from the Goddess Circles, Access Your Power Within Grads, yoga students, clients and any woman with a flair for fabulosity. (That's you.)  Details coming soon.  RSVP required.  You might just meet your new best friend. :)
     

    this is your one life.  why not make it amazing?

    Robin Peglow M.A., H.H.C. of SOLH Coaching is a Speaker and Integrative Life Coach who specializes in group and individual programs designed to create sustainable change.  She supports high functioning, intelligent people to get inspired about the possibility of living a fully-expressed, powerful life while deepening their contribution to others.
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    Robin Peglow, M.A., H.H.C