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Sample Problems and Solutions
Take a few minutes to read the following recommendations if you are curious about:
Fatigue
Sleeplessness
Priorities for the Busy Person
   
Top 12’s — 12 Simple Tips for Frequent Challenges
Weight Loss
Low Stress
Immune Boost
Better Sleep
Increased Energy



Fatigue
Experiment: Keep a food journal for three days. Record what you eat, drink and snack on for breakfast, lunch and dinner. Write down how you feel immediately after a meal and then again two hours later to see what patterns emerge.

One Solution: Incorporate as much “live food” as possible… foods that are fresh, brightly colored and not packaged or preserved. Fruit in the morning, veggies at lunch and dinner with “clean” proteins (hormone and antibiotic-free) and whole grains (i.e. brown rice), or whole grain-based products, such as whole-wheat pasta or whole-grain bread. Eat this way for even one day and you can feel the difference.


Sleeplessness
Experiment: Notice what your evening regimen is. How late do you eat dinner, watch stimulating/action TV, review bills or exercise? What do you do to relax at night, or are you going from action to jumping into sleeping position, wondering why you’re not tired?

One Solution: Give yourself at least two hours between your evening meal and bedtime and one hour to wind down quietly from the day. (No late-night news with war coverage.) Try massaging some Mandarin essential oil into the soles of your feet before bed, or take a bath to open your blood vessels, which stimulates relaxation.


Priorities for the Busy Person
Get started now. Why wait? This exercise will give you a new perspective on how you choose to spend your time.

1. Take a piece of paper and lay it horizontally in front of you (wider than long).
2. Take 20 minutes and list the top five priorities in your life across the top of the page.
3. Look them over and ask if each one is for you or for someone else. If it is for someone else, please replace it with a priority that benefits you.
4. Stop reading. Complete #3 before continuing.
5. Once you have your priorities, list the top three or four components that define this priority (i.e., Health: exercise, pain/illness-free, energy to spare, absence of moodiness). [see below for a more specific example.]
6. Review your list and use it to clear the clutter in your life and to create new boundaries for yourself at work and at home. If an activity is in question, check your priorities and see if it takes away, contributes to or is neutral to them. Experiment with saying “yes” only to things that support your priorities. The choices are yours, and awareness is the exciting first step.

Example Priorities

Boost
Immune System
Develop
Relationships
Relax/
Eliminate Stress

1
7-9 hours of sleep

1
Speak with sister to resolve old conflict — practice “neutral energy” approach so she hears me

1
“Sit” for 10 minutes in the morning to clear my mind or practice breathwork techniques I learned in coaching session

2
Eat fruits or veggies at every meal
2
Spend quality time with spouse — do something new or romantic — make “FUN & LOVE” flashcards to choose from
2
Practice yoga three times a week — focus on stretches that help my neck and shoulders to reduce stress and fatigue
3
Eliminate nagging cough — reduce foods that aggravate; increase clearing, cleansing foods
3
Call my father on a more regular schedule and thank him for all he did — take time to get to know him; show more love
3
Select music that is calming for my mind and body — schedule “music breaks” during the day